Intern's Item: As Good as it Gets
Last week I was reminded once again of how fortunate and blessed I am to be here
at First Parish Church in Weston. I wanted you all to know that I thought of
you fondly, literally thanking God for you on my way home from a meeting. Last
Wednesday I attended the Mass Bay District meeting of the Unitarian Universalist
Ministers Association. The most personally affecting moments of the day for me
came during what are called Small Group Discussions. I am in (unsurprisingly)
the Intern/Seminarian Group. Our group's discussion topics included some of the
problems and issues people were facing in our respective internships. As the
discussion went on I realized I shared none of the problems and issues raised by
the other interns. Being male and older than some of the other interns have
helped me avoid some of the issues they are facing. That said, I am still
incredibly fortunate and blessed to be at First Parish Church in Weston.
I am not isolated physically, spiritually, or emotionally. I have been given an
office in close proximity to other staff members, so that I often don't even
need to pick up a phone to communicate with them. Although there may be some
religious and spiritual diversity on our staff, it is never an issue or
stumbling block for working together to best serve the parish. I have always
felt personally supported by everyone on the staff both in my work and in what
is going on in my personal life.
I have no complaints about my supervisor. I have met few people in my life with
more integrity and more concern for those around him than Tom Wintle. He has
shepherded me through a difficult and administratively labor intensive process
with kindness, compassion, and wisdom.
I can honestly say that First Parish Church is a teaching parish. The intern
committee has given me unwavering support, honest criticism, and provided
friendship on the journey. Every staff member, committee, parent, volunteer and
young person with whom I have worked has treated me the same way: as an intern
minister, not as a student. I have been granted the freedom to learn by being a
minister, by being allowed to both succeed and to make mistakes. This is the
life of a true teaching congregation.
My internship is not yet finished and I do not know how my interview with the
Ministerial Fellowship Committee will turn out, although I expect it to go well.
Whatever happens from this point on, however, I can honestly say to all of you
at First Parish that you've done all you could and done it well. I couldn't
have had it any better. Thank you and God bless you for being my teaching
congregation.
Peace,
Tony Lorenzen